Children count on their parents to make decisions for them about a variety of things. One of these is the medical care they need. When parents divorce, those medical decisions can become one of the primary areas of contention. In a child custody case, legal custody...
Child Custody
What if your child refuses to follow the custody schedule?
A meticulously drafted parenting plan may appear clear on paper, but your child’s actions can tell a different story. Children have their own emotions and responses that do not always align with a structured schedule. In the moment, it may feel easier to agree when...
What is the difference between legal and physical custody?
Parents going through a divorce or separation often hear the terms "legal custody" and "physical custody" but may not know what each one means. In New Hampshire, courts use different words for these ideas. They call them decision-making responsibility and residential...
Can children refuse to spend time with a parent after a divorce?
When parents divorce, they usually share custody. It is standard in most cases for parents to split time with their children and to share parental authority when they divorce. The children who are subject to those custody orders may feel stressed and unhappy about...
Can one parent cancel the other’s time with their children?
Disputes about sharing parenting time and parental authority are common. It can take months for adults to reach a reasonable arrangement regarding their family schedule and parental responsibilities. Unfortunately, issues may arise that complicate co-parenting...
Combatting parental alienation in divorce
Although your co-parent may have been a terrible spouse, they may still be a good parent to your children. During divorce and its aftermath, both parents must commit to a level of civility when communicating with and about the children. When parents speak badly about...
The risk of verbally agreeing to change custody terms
Custody orders are enforceable documents that delegate parental authority and divide parental rights when adults no longer live together. Parents generally have to comply with the terms outlined in a custody order. They observe the established schedule and communicate...
Considerations for child custody over the winter holidays
The winter holiday season is closing in quickly, so it’s critical for parents to determine how they’re going to handle this special time of year. Regardless of which holidays parents and children observe, having a plan ahead of time can make the situation easier for...
Making two homes child-friendly post-divorce
After a divorce, creating two separate but welcoming homes for your children is one of the most important ways to help them adjust. Kids generally thrive on consistency and security, so while they may move between two households, both environments should feel like...
Adding a right of first refusal to a custody order
Custody orders typically contain an assortment of different details. Parents make arrangements for sharing decision-making authority. They negotiate schedules for day-to-day life and special events, such as holidays. The parents may also integrate provisions into...

